Whether it is the 1st time or the 100th time, if your friend is dealing with a breakup and heartbreaks, you got to be with her as a holy good friend and help her fight that phase of her life. Heartbreaks are monsters and they kill you from within and it does not depends on the number of times your bestie broke up with a certain number of boys. She is in pain man, and you are the one she will come crying to.
P.S. – If you love your friend a little too much and don’t want to deal with her nonstop crying then help her get over it.
Make her vent it out
Let’s talk scientifically! It is a proven fact that if a person is sad then let them pour out their sadness so that they set themselves free. Once they vent out all that is within them, then they tend to feel lighter. She trusts you so help her vent it out.
It can be the same old boring things but she is your best friend yaar.
Bring her guilty pleasure food for her
You know what she can eat to her heart’s content, don’t you? Bring that comfort food to her bed and make a small bed party of good food and drinks with her. She will surely feel better.
You have to be her mommy sometimes.
Take her out for shopping
May be, in this phase of her life she can deny for shopping too. But, you have to make this agenda work. Allure her as much as you can and take her for shopping. She would definitely feel so much better.
You may gift her a piece of clothing to make her feel extra special.
Plan a surprise party for her
It does not need to be a lavish one. Just call in all your friends and turn your house into a little, cozy, and a happening party place. Order some food, prepare some drinks, arrange for some good music, and just make her feel the queen of the party. These small things actually work as a therapy. She will get a space to forget her sorrows and enjoy.
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Be there with her no matter how much annoying she becomes
There will be a lot of crying, abusing, mood swings, panic attacks, and similar drama but you have to be with her because you have always been with her. Things will get over the top and might screw you but being a best friend you cannot give up on her.
On other note, let her drink a bit if she wants. She will at least sleep and let you sleep peacefully.
Watch flicks with her
There is nothing better than two friends watching chick flicks with each other when they are feeling low or high. Chick flicks are the best things in the world that are mood lifters. Give in a night for her and be there to enjoy with her.
Make her indulge in some fun activities
If she is taking too long to recover and it is not getting easy for her, then think something for long time for her. Make her learn some new skills and activities. Make her enroll in these activities where her focus gets diverted and she enjoys her new work.
Make her be a better version of herself.
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